In the Creative cowboy film Changing times a group of young Maasai girls; JOYLYN NASAU, SUSAN SISIAN, AGNES KINTA, ELIZABETH MPONINO and ALICE LANTOI, recite a poem written by EMMANUEL PARSIMEI SUPARE called Who cares for me? In their reading the Maasai girls capture the dreams and hopes of a young Maasai woman.
Here is EMMANUEL’S poem.
Who cares for me?
1
I’m just a girl child, it sounds good, but oh no!
To my father I’m just a source of income
To my mother who bore me
A beast of burden in the home
To my fellow pupils especially boys
A beautiful flower to be admired
And to the old men, ooh a juicy fruit
But to be eaten raw
2
It all started before I was born
When my mother received a harsh warning
Make sure you give birth to a boy
Little attention was paid to me after all
Girls like all women, are not to be noticed by the society
As I grew up I was always reminded, would you please sit like a woman
Talk like a woman, what crime did women commit
To suffer all through their lives?
3
When it was time to go to school
I rejoiced thinking that, this was the end of suffering
But to my great surprise I had been mistaken
Just like at home, girls in school do donkey work
They fetch water and collect firewood, smear or mop the floor, while boys are learning
Poor me who cares, I’m asking?
4
My mother makes me stay at home
While my brothers go to school
To a girl’s place is just but in the kitchen
Therefore one has to be trained thoroughly
Does she know I really hate this?
5
My parents want me to be circumcised
And I know it is wrong practice
Circumcision removes all the joys part of life
My people help me
For I’m just but only a girl child!
6
My father thinks of marrying me off
In order to get school fees for my brother
To him education for girls is meaningless
I have feelings for my education dad
Please let me complete my education dad!
Does he care about my feelings?
7
I have been assuming that
Marriage is a bed of roses and honey
But aah to a Maasai woman
It is like a small hell on Earth
To her husband, a property to release his frustrations
And her in-laws a beast of burden
Who cares? Maasai women want change!!!
Emmanuel Parsimei Supare
